Tuesday 31 March 2015

Its All About Security...

This is something which most of the Indian Parents want for their children specially the girl child.Yeah, as the topic clarifies u i am talking about "security".Of course I do agree that security and safety is important and what our parents think is absolutely right. But what is really wrong in it is their over security for their children n specially for their daughter.

We  have heard that "Excess of everything is bad". Exactly this happens with over security.  If we have to live in excess security we would definitely be highly affected with it n just hate even the word "security".



What would happen if this security would make your lyf full of rules n restrictions??

Let us talk about some common thingsthat happen wid most of us usually in the name of security-


1. IF u r a girl and u jst want to take admision in Delhi, or wants to do intership there n suppose ur friens hv planned a trip to Delhi. How much of the Indian parents would agree wid this???
would they simply agree n permit u to roam to Delhi.??

The answer would be "NO"

Ofcoure, its the mindset of mostly parents that Delhi is not safe for girls(specially after the famous nirbhaya case)and girls should not go there for any purpose whether it be for your internship, for your college trip n even for your jobs. you just stay away from Delhi.

Is this fair for girls?? Is this we call Security??

just because most rape cases occur in Delhi it means girls should not go there.

why..???

If we are not secure in the country's capital., then i don't think so that anywhere we will be secure. This is not we call security that is we would not go to Delhi or somewheere else where our parents don't allow us then we 'll be secure. this is called restrictions n not security.

So Dear parents allow your daughters to roam anywhere they want as by doing this your daughters will become strong, confident n face the realities of the world.Don't stop them in the name of over security coz security is what we take in our own hands.

2.what would happen if ur parents wants you to study in girls cllg (or school) because u'll be more secure there??

The answer would be that ur  life become full of rules n restrictions. Yeah no doubt u''ll be secure there a lot no matter how many incidents occur everyday but still a girls college or school is the best place where u could be secure as compared to a co-ed college or school!!!

It doesn't matter your rights are violated(by following the rules that violate ur rights)  or  your lyf become frustrated (as u wont be able to enjoy without boys in ur cllg hehehe!!) n not because of boys only but because of too much restrictions in the name of providing security for you but yeah u''ll be secure here and ur parents would be satisfied with it coz all they need the most is theso called"security" for u.

3.What would u do when your life is full of security??

Obviously if someone is everytime stopped or restrains in the name of security n rules , he or she would definitely think that nothing in their lyf has  remain except security. what would he or she do with this security??

IF someone has doesn't see freedom, if they don't have the freedom of their choices, definitely that person would hate so much of security in lyf n even hate the word " security".

This is what the consequences would be if we live in a world of "excess security"



All in one I can summarise it is -

Dear parents, we respect you and luv u a lot . We know that you care for us n so you believe in our security.We do respect your feelings n even we need security in today's lyf .But what we want to say is that yes securty is good but yeah ,excess security, the over security is not good coz excess of everything is bad and  so with the consequences of security too.

No one is secure anywhere and  not even  secure in our homes.SO how can we expect for security in Delhi or other places if we are not getting security in our homes itself.???


So,Dear papa move on with your meaning of security n give us our freedom n believe in us coz we also want to face the world. For this all we need is the FREEDOM not the EXCESS SECURITY.





Sunday 22 March 2015

Things That Remain Unsaid.......

"Hey Riya,reply me yrr" texted Rohit at 10:30 p.m


Riya and Rohit were best friends since from the school days.Rohit was the type of guy which Riya never liked but still Rohit was her best friend n even she didn't know the reason why she was attracted towards Rohit- why he was her best friend?/?


May be thats why it is said "opposite attracts"!! 


"what do u want to know Rohit"???texted Riya at about 11:15 p.m


Rohit replied"Do u lyk like me  or do u have some feelings for me"??


After waiting for at least 15 minutes Riya texted"yeah, of course i lyk u...as a friend....:)..:)"



On the other side Rohit was eagerly waiting for her answer n he has just seen her message.Rohit thinks that why girls can't be just straight forward why girls cant give a simple answer to such a simple question.They are responsible on their own  for creating dilemma for themselves!!!Today Rohit believed that what he has always heard is true about girls that God has created girls but even He is not able to understand what is going on in a girls mind!!!This is something true about girls.


"yrr, dont u girls give a simple answer to a simple question u stupid girl...." replied Rohit

"shut up ,means u boys are so simple n straight forward rt....n r u..??" replied Riya


"yeah, boys are born to be shut up before girls  !!!okkkhh.....u lyk me as a friend i know yrr...i was just kidding" texted Rohit


"hmm...thats gud :P...:P" Riya texted


"Hey Riya, she don't lyk me  yrr bt i like her a lot . she is so pretty n hot....!!!" another mesasge by Rohit to Riya


"oh come on yrr this is the 7th grl whom u are calling preety n hot n aweesme. Don't u get tired of doing flirting to such an extent i mean be serious now n focus on ur studies first" replied Riya


"hey miss serious i m not flirting dear m serious i lyk her. should i tell her that i lyk her n how pretty she is??" Rohit answered


"okkhhh then tell her n do whatever u want to do. why r u asking  me...??.i don't care about all these." Riya replied


"hey what hapened to u....?? i was jst kiddng yrr m nt at all serious bt yeah i lyk her thats all ,u know me Riya..."Rohit texted


" hmm...i know bt u knw i get jealous whenever u talk about your other girl friends ."i don't know why is it so but yes it happens !!May be i feel insecure that someone will take u away from me n i''ll loss my best friend" texted Riya


"oh miss senti r u mad.... why u get jealous u are n will alwz be my friend n noone can take ur place in my life"Rohit replied

"hmm....ofcourse i know as noone has the capacity like me to tolerate u....heheehe....!!Riya replied


"hehehehe......really.....n noone lyk me too to tolerate such a heartless girl lyl you."...:P..:P replied Rohit


"kk i have to go right now. will catch u later .byeeee n gd nt!!"Riya replied


"gd nt dear swt dreams n tc"texted Rohit



Riya then switched off her lappy , lying on her bed n was thnkng why she get jealous about other girls in Rohit's lyf. Why she get effected by those girls, why??was this  due to the insecurity that she'll loss her best ffriend or there was somethnig else. ??why Rohit was her best friend -coz he was the type of guy she never liked.was there somethning that remain unsaid...??? with all these questions in her mind she took a deep breath n then she realised that it was due to her insecurity of loosing her best friend and nothnig else as Rohit was the only friend to whom she can share anything n Rohit understands her very much.



But still there was something which Riya was not understanding she was not satisfied with....!! what was that she even didn't know n may be she was just ignoring these.but yeah there were certain things that remain unsaid.......!....!!


Saturday 21 March 2015

Friendship

One day all of us will get separated and will remember our conversations on evrythning

n nothing.Days will pass into months,months into year n we'll remain in contact with

each other.Our children will ask"Who are these people in the photograph??"

we'll answer them with an invisible tears in our eye n say:"these are those people with whom i had the best memories of my lyf....."


Yeah, of course, I am talking about the friends n friendship-- the relation which we choose on our own.This blog is for all those people who believe that friends r the  best part of their lyf n have their best friends forever......!!!


Before talking about friendship, i would lyk to thank my bestiess in lyf without whom i would not be able to live in d heaven (or d hell )called hostel-not only in hostel bt lyf would be so boring without my bff-.thankss to them for always supporting me encouragng me n ofcourse for tolerating me.....(i m really irritating sometymes...).This blog is dedicated to all the persons who have their best friends forevr n hav the  best memories of their life.


Friendship -means different to differnt persons.but one thing that remains common in any friendship is d luv ,trust n ofcourse unlimited fun...mkng best memories that u cn hold it in ur heart forever.

Only in friendship u can share  almost everything - whether it be ur lnch box, pen, books n even the  answer sheets in exam or even u can share your bf n gf too...hhahahaa!!!.There are no secrets n no lies between friends.Or u can say all is fair in friendship.

In  summarised way only i can say is---

Yaaron dosti bdi hi hasin h 

ye n ho to kya phr bolo ye zindagi h!!!


so make friends go crazzy wid them live ur every moment wid ur bff qki 

"zindagi milegi n dobara dosto"