"Perfect Daughter"

Standing on the terrace, looking at the stars with the cold wiinds blowing ,she was thinking of the days when she used to  spent most of her tym wid her family specially with her Father. In her childhood her father told her a number of stories n one of them was the story of a "PERFECT DAUGHTER".Till that time she promised herself  that nomatter whatever the situation is n would be, no matter anyone would support her father or not, but she'll alwayzs prove her to be a Perfect Daughter.

Thinking about these childish memories , she was crying badly. she has now understood that everyone have had a childhood in which we are free to do anything,n no one cares for that. But as you grow up, everything changes whether it be  your habits,your carefree attitude, and of course your relation and attachment with ur family. 

All these things are happening to her, dont know why???  As sge grow up, she only talks to her father as a formality. everyone in her family are so busy that no one wanna understand that what she wants in her life ,what are her desires ,what she wants to be.Everyone are just putting  their decisions on her. She has now realised that being a "perfect daughter" is not easy.

To  be a Perfect Daughter, u have to follow your family's rule whether you like it or not, to respect your father's decisions without asking any question , to choose the path which your father asks you to choose, no matter u want to move on that path or not. To choose that profession which your family wants n specially your father.omatter u wanna become a singer, a model or an actor, if your father wants u to do Law , medical or engineering in your lyf then you have to do it. yeah  no matter what is your passion in lyf or what u want to do.

Because  the definition of perfect daughter is set up by the society, by the family n of course by almost everyone because  to be a perfect daughter, u have to be perfect according to your family ,your parents n of course the so called society.!!!

She was doing all these , has followed all the rules , never disobeys her father's decision, and has done everything in which she was least interested  but her father was the most interested one. That's why she has opted to do medical - the profession which she hated the most . But still for her father , to fulfill her promise of being a" perfect daughter" throughout her life. she has decided to do medical just to fulfill her father's dream because  girls love their father the most in their life because 

 "A father is a daughter's first luv "!!!

She has promised herself that no matter how old she grow, how much she would  luv her husband but her dad will always be her king. And for a king, her princess can do anything, can let go her desires, her wishes n almost everything that her dad doesn't likes because all she wants in her life is to be a "Perfect Daughter"

But  don't the society ,the family thinks that Is this a criteria that to be a perfect daughter u have to follow all the rules, follow all the decisions, to let go one's passion in lyf. Just because if a daughter disobeys these things ,she can't be regarded a "perfect daughter".??

She wants to ask just one question to every parents n specially to every father that:

Everyone says that no one is perfect, everyone has some imperfections, but everyone is special in their own way. Everyone has their own choices, own desires n own decisions in lyf.

Then  Why a Girl , a Daughter has to be Perfect , why she has to proof herself to be a perfct daughter???why  parents wants their daughter to follow all the rules set up by themselves. Why she can't follow her path, n if she follows her path , why she has to  face sarcastic comments -everywhere from her family to the  so called society???

The questions are many  but what would be the answer to it, everyone have a different opinions.!!

Staying Strong

In everyone's lyf there comes a situation when you feel down,feel lyk evrythng is going wrong,liyk lyf knocks u down..n has cheated wid u.In that situation we dnt knw what is right n wrong. At that time ur frnds, family n almost everyone says that everythng will be alright soon.IN fact they knw that lyf will nvr be same lyk before.they only consoles u jst to gve u strength n support to face the harsh reality of life.

If something has gone wrong n lyf has ditched u bitterly, show ur emotions jst cry as loudly as u can show your anger n do everything that can heal ur pain.but in noway, neevr give up, never ever feel like life will never be kind to you..because you never know what happen next.

Whenever lyf knocks u down,show lyf that u r strong enough to deal with its harsh realities. Yeah,of course it might be hard for you but once u take a step towards it, ur paths will follow you.Just stay strong whenever u feel low,feel lyk everything is falling apart, because i think without passing any hurdles ,solving any problem u cant get happiness or successs.

Just like without solving the question paper in exams u can't get the best results n can't get your teachers appreciation....hehehe...!!!

 Problems n hurdles in our lyf are just to test our strength ,to test our soul that how long it can bear pain.Without facing any problem, life would be like a straight line without any curve n without any enjoyment.

Infact every problem  in life either gives us  the best experience or the worst experience.

In both conditions we can  learn alot from that moment.
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 If someone has failed in life,just stay strong n try to face it. Believe in yourself alwz ,nomatter what the situation is.For if u don't believe in yourself.who else other do!!!

Happiness-Alwayz a choice....

Growing up may be the hardest part of life. It’s the time when we seek our path of what we truly want in life. We keep looking for something or someone that we think will make us happy.

But..

Have you ever asked yourself, “What makes me happy?”, “Will I ever be happy when I get this, or when I get that?”, and the most interesting part of life is not a question. It is the desire of most people. Maybe you keep looking for it. Never stop trying to find it. Because you think it is the way to be happy.

Do you know someone that keeps saying… “I will be happy when I get the love of my life!”

There’s nothing wrong with that. In fact, we all want to love and to be loved. Love can make us a better person, to make the world a better place. Love can do everything. Love is a powerful gift from God because He, Himself is Love.

Love is the way to happiness. But don’t forget that happiness is an inside job. If you think you’re unhappy because you still don’t have the love of your life, that’s not true. I, myself also believed that it will only make me happy because that’s what we see and learned from our society.

Love is about sharing. Love can be given from our family and friends, from the strangers we will meet. We keep learning from them. Loving them back can lead us to happiness.

Happiness is always a choice. You will find happiness if you allow yourself to be happy from within and through sharing them out.

THE FEAR OF LOOSING.....

Lyf plays its own tricks n twists. It goes on, no matter what we have gain or loss... but one thing always remains with us-the fear of loosing something.....!!

Something that you luv more than your life , something that you never wanna loose
If I would be asked what i fear the most to loose-its obviously i never wanna loss my parents-my family. The fear of there death fears me the most...:(...:(

If someone is asked what is there biggest fear-the answer would  be quite different to different persons.


But what should we do to overcome our fear??

 Remember the simple rule -------accept the bitter truth of lyf that one who is born, has to die.. one who is born has to sacrifice...!!

One who is born has to loose something or everything someday, sometimes  .Life n Death both are d truths but noone wanna accept the bitter truth---------death.

Noone wanna accept that every coin has two sides.?So if life is a sweeter truth......Death is also the second face of it.....n its bitter to accept.

Lyf moves on its own will,  play games wid us.

Be ready to accept the bitterness of lyf....n struggle until u overcome your fear...!!!

THE HOPE....

Again she was sitting in her room,trying to cry loudly lyk nvr bfr.bt she cn't.
Seeing outside the window thinking that why she cn't get what she wants .All she wnts is jst her freedom...freedom for her choices in life , freedom to choose her cllg ,freedom in every possible way she wants...,!!!

Why everytime she has to give explanation to others......??

Turning around the watch showing 10:40 pm...she felt to wrote it all in her diary.....n started writing.she wrote.......

"Today once again I  realised that girls are born to be dependent on others.... they dont deserve any freedom
..Why they are even not given chances of choosing things what she wants.??Why GOD has made girls??  And if HE has made girls, why people on earth make differences with them.??
Isn't she also deserves freedom like her brother n like the other male members of her family..??

Why she has to marry according to her family wishes..n  everytime why girls have to give explanations on every thing she wants to do..??
Is being a girl a curse...??

Ifn't why the family, society can't give freedom to girls..??
Why cant they respect their dreams ??

Writing all these in her diary, tears came into her eyes...:(
consoling her again that no matter if she cant get freedom ,if her dreams can't be fulfilled....she has to live anyway , has to fulfill her papa's dream ,live lyf in the way her family wants n moreover.... lyf is not perfect....n she has to satisfy her heart....n has to live live n live......!!

 She stopped crying, put her diary on the table..n went to sleep....with invisible tears in her heart
just in the hope of a new begging...and. a new sunshine..:)"



Isn't she deserves her own world where she can fulfill her dreams ,her passion n gets her freedom....??Is this the big thing that she wants..isn't it??

Isn't she can be regarded as a puppet with whom anyone can play..???