Monday 28 December 2015

Some lessons we learnt from the Year 2015

New Year is about to come.So its time to just look back for a once and emphasis on the lesson that this year taught us. Here are some of the lessons we  can learn from the year 2015-


1.  Life doesn't give a  second chance to everyone,  but Arvind kejriwal got that.

     The year 2015 was a lucky year for "Arvind kejriwal". BY his hard works, the AAP leader became  the chief minister of Delhi.His story is a great example of how people who deserve a second chance, get one. No matter how  hard the paths be.

    2.  Its your life and your choice.
   This year the famous Deepika Padukone's video "my choice" was a great example  of how     intelligent the  audience on social media is.The video , that spoke about women empowerment  was far  from it and it was criticized  because the audience didn't buy the message blindly.Remember, its your life and your choice to do what you want  and want you don't  . Everyone have their own choices. Just because this video featured a bollywood  superstar, doesn't mean you would follow it blindly.

3. Taxis are just a  click  away from us- the great use of technology

Gone are the days when we have to wait for some auto rickshaw or taxis. This year give us the technology to use the Uber and olla cabs . Thanks to them, we reach home  on time by just one click

4. 2015- The year of banning.

 Yeah,we live in a country where we are not even  free of our eating choices. This year we all heard about the famous  beef ban, maggi ban, meat ban .It questioned our eating choices and took away our favourite items from the market. It hurted alot of people when "hamari maggi" was banned. So this year  we saw all the twists and turns and I guess the year 2015 should be named as the "year of banning"

5. Think before you speak something in India ( specially when you are a superstar)

Recently the news channels covers the headlines - Intolerance debate. The statement which the famous Actor Aamir khan gave to the media became a national topic in just few minutes. SRK , Aamir were criticized for what they had said. Remember, If you utter a single word without thinking, even the stardom is not going to help you anyway.

6. If you have the passion, nothing can stop you from winning.

   Sundar Pichoi steals this year and makes it his own  by becoming the CEO of Google- the first Indian CEO. His life story became an inspiration to hundreds of people. No matter what your background is, from where you belong to , if you have the determination and passion , you can win the race. Remember "mehnat krne walo ki kbhi har nhi hoti"

 7. In India- rape a girl and proof yourself a minor
No one of us has forgotten the Delhi gang rape case. The rapists were prosecuted for what they did and one of them being a minor was released after 3 years spent in rehabilitation centre. The government gave him "sewing machine+Rs 10,000" in hope of his rehabilitation .Such an "incredible India". On one hand, you  talk about women empowerment, their safety,strict laws and the other side you release a rapist  because he is a minor. Shame on the Indian judiciary system. Such a shameful year 2015 . I have just one sentence for the Indian Government " if you can't make it, just leave it, because its not everyone's cup of tea". We girls can make us safe your stupid laws are not needed at all. Try to make the strict rape laws and implement it.

8. The nature is warning us to take actions regarding climate.

   In Chennai, heavy flood, rain destroys thousand of people . many became homeless, some lost their loved ones and a huge panic appeared in the minds of people. Another one was the incident of Nepal Earthquake. This year the nature was in its mood to destroy. It gives us a lesson that its the serious time when everyone of us hold hand together and make steps for the prevention  of  global warming and betterment of nature and economy.

9. Silence for those who thinks  Indian law is equal for all .
  Yes the famous Salman khan verdict proves it that in India "Your Money Your Rule"The Judiciary says that Salman was not found guilty because there were not "enough evidences". Such a shameful decision where one is set free of all charges because of his stardom and the so called not enough evidences found. this decision in 2015 proves you that "money can buy the judiciary"

So these topics are  enough to remind you what we have lost and gained in the year 2015. Lets promise that we would welcome the next year in a new way and would try to make it  better than 2015.

Thursday 24 December 2015

Merry Christmas

MERRY CHRISTMAS  To all the followers of my blog!!! I wish this year Santa will bring a lot of happiness, prosperity and gifts for you .Hope all of you have a great christmas and try to make others christmas great also.This will give you more happiness and Santa would be happy by seeing that humanity still  exists in our planet.

Here again wishing everyone "MERRY CHRISTMAS"

Friday 4 December 2015

Marks: Does It Really Matters?

We all have crossed  that phase in life where we considered  the most important things in life were to achieve the highest marks.Yes, you are getting me right.This time, I am talking about our school life.That time of life which is considered to be the most memorable moments one can have in life.
At the school times, almost everyone of us used to fight with our friends just for the silly marks.Even the besties fought among themselves for obtaining the highest marks.Everyone did hard work just for being the topper of the class.That was the time when we only run towards marks.

I think marks will give you happiness for sure, but only for a few moment.The moment when you judge yourself how much knowledge you have or if someone from your family. relatives. friends asks you something about any topic,that time your marks are not going to help you at all.Its your knowlegde ,your experience and your communication skills that matters a lot and would help you  in satisfying others for the question they have asked you.

Dear friends, this time I am writing in short for the reason that i know you all are quite intelligent to understand what is more important in life-marks or knowledge??yes. I do agree obtain good marks but firstly obtain the knowledge ,If you have knowledge about your subjects, no one can beat you not even that silly marks.Remember someone has rightly said-
"A single sheet of paper can't decide your future"

Likewise, marks are an illusion ,no one is going to give you the best jobs in Mncs on the basis of your 12th boards marls. or the marks secured in your graduation until and unless you don't have the knowledge, communication and the convencing power.

 Take life easy make it knowledgeable and passionate.Life is not about the silly marks but  is more than that.Bunk few classes, spend your time with friends in college canteens, study hard and get knowledge.This time will never come in life.So enjoy to the fullest and don't don't go behind that "silly marks".Be passionate, Be a learner and not a book worm!!

Hope this blog of mine would help some of your friends who think marks are most important than anything else.Only one sentence for you people:

"Marks can be obtained by any means(the smart ones would understand what i mean to say)but knowledge can't be"!!


Tuesday 27 October 2015

Follow Your Dreams

I  had read the book of APJ Kalam 's"Wings Of Fire".I read that book,but never get deeper inside it. Or you can say at that time if I would have understand its meaning...it would be the response of the people that the girl is more intelligent than her age!!Seriously,our childhood is like this only.We are so innocent at that time that we even can't understand ourself.Its that time of our life when we feel everything around us is nice and happy....even the whole world is happy.Well, the intro is more than enough now....lets come to te point directly wo khte hai n......"sidhi bat no bakwas"

I was talking about the "Wings Of Fire"-a book that is all about a person's dreams and the difficult paths that he had to follow in his life. Well known about DR.Kalam-- a man of great determination and a true follower of his dreams.Talking about the word "dream" i remembered a great line said by him which was quoted like-

"Dreams are not which we see in our sleep, Dreams are those which won't make you sleep"!!

Dear readers, we all have our dreams in life .May be its different from each other.Like one may dreamt of a getting a good job, the other one may dreamt of becoming a doctor, a nurse , a teacher and so on.But how many of us become successful in fulfilling our dreams.If i am not wrong the answer would be a 40 out of 100 people.

Why????

To my point of view, its just all of us see dreams but a few of us "Follow our dreams". Following the path  ,no matter how hard it would be... will definitely lead you to your dreams.Many of us feel irritated at some point of life , that time just calm down yourself.Speak to yourself and make urself determined that these small or big hurdles in the life would not throw you out to follow the way you are going to achieve your dream.
Remember,the path to success is not easy.Better to follow the path than to quit in life because winners never quit. Be a winner in your life and follow your dreams.Never think that its too late to follow your dream because its good to be late than never. So,just follow your dreams, go through it. Make your life the best of the best and then you''ll realise that the hurdles in your life was to make you more and more strong and determined......!!!

I guess its enough for today and those who like  this little post of mine......thanku so much and those who don't.... no offence I"ll try that you would love my next post.Till then......good night and take care the lovely people!!!







Sunday 10 May 2015

"From Where To Define you"

, Yesterday was the "Mother's Day".Everyone was wishing her mother "happy mother's day".But one thing i don't understand that is it a fashion today to wish your mother on the social networking sites-on fb, watsup,twitter etc...I have seen yesterday my facebook page was full of mothes day wishes.May be many of us has not wished our mothers by calling her or by meeting her but yes how can we forget to wish her on facebook..coz it's a trend now.Today everything we do, we must upload it on facebook and so how can we miss to wish our mothers on fb and watsup??

Leaving this point and coming to the importance of "mother".

Mother, as heared is the world's best person and without them life isn't life. And we can't give a definition to them,even we can't predict from where we should start to define her because definitions are given to those who have a limited way. Mothers love, her affection, dedication, sacrifice can't be measured,can't be defined and thats why she is a MOTHER. yes, she is the only one who ''ll always be there for you in need and even if u dont need them still she is always with you.Since my childhood i have heard that mothers love is unconditional.Yes, i do agree even everyone agrees to it.
Our mother is the first person who welcome you to this world and gave you her gentle first touch.She is the only one who is always ready to hold you  tight at the slighest indication of a fall.she won't mind to make her own life bitter just to give yo a better life.Only she can forget her cute laughs to make you laugh till ur life.yes only she can give up her desires so that you can fulfill your desires in life.



Truly she is a mother...........!!!


This blog of mine is dedicated to my mother without whom i can't imagine my life and to every mother who has made uncountable sacrifices ,bear unlimited pain and has done almost everything to make our life a better one, to make us happy and to make us laugh.Truly life can't be life without you and a home can't be home without you. You are the "strongest pillar"and the "biggest source of inspiration" for us.I am happy that i am a reflection of your's and you are my mother!!



Happy Mother's Day..!!!

Tuesday 5 May 2015

Expectation

This is something which differs from person to person but hv a place in everones life.Yes you are right as the title signifies, i am talking about "EXPECTATION".
  Expectation has a different meaning for everybody.  Although I made introduction more than enough...wo khte hai n "sidhi bat no bkwas"so lets come to the point directly...lets talk about the word which I was thinking to tell you from past several days

There is a word EXPECTATION...every one is well known to this word. It is a very common word for every age group in today's life.
In reality if we see ...every day we all meet this word.Like if in the morning we sit for the breakfast and something comes on the table which you do not like you directly reject it just because the breakfast was not up to your expectations.

But do you think that how much the person would be disappointed who have made ur breakfast in the morning...??NO, we don't thinnk much but we should coz that person has an expectation that you would praise him for making breakfast for you.

Anyways lets have a look of other situations in life

When your parents drop you to school, provides you the best education and gives you all the possible facilities so that you can study well , you can live well and happy.Every parents in this world have their "Expectation" from you, from their child that one day their child would do such better things in life that the society will know ur parents by their name.Like wo sunte hai n hum "wo dkho DR.Anmol ke papa ja rhe h"

So basically here I just want my readers to focus on the point that "where there is an attachment, there is an expectation"


Lets come to the point what are our expectations from ourselves??


It would not be wrong to say that everyone of us have expectations with us.Like some of us wants that we should get good marks in exam, should get a good job and lastly a luxurious life according to our capacity and hard work.

But suppose if you are not up to your expectations then what'll you do?Because everyone is not so lucky that what they expect , they''ll get .

We should not be disappointed with ourselves because if you don't expect from yourself ,you can't expect it from others!!

 In every situation whether it be in good times or bad one,all of us expect or hope that at last everything would be fine and if it's not fine then clearly "its not the end"


Yes,sometimes you'll get disappointments,you''ll get rejections but that doesn't mean that you can't expect things from others.

I have heard that "the best possible way to be happy is to never expect anything from anyone"
 But I think its easy to say this but quiet hard to follow. Where the world exists, Expectations follows.

 All I know is that "Attachment leads to Expectations and sometimes expectations leads to disappointments"







Sunday 12 April 2015

Because I Luv You...


Prachi had came there only to saw Parth one last time n to hug him lyk never before.Parth was going to the famous "OXFORD UNIVERSITY"  to fulfill his dreams.After 2 years of hard work, he had finally got this opportunity. Both Parth and Prachi met 2 yrs ago in a coaching institute n till then they were like best friends.Parth considered Prachi only his best friend n shared almost everything about his lyf to Prachi. Parth was also Prachi's best friend but even she didn't know when n how her feelings for Parth developed, not like a friend. She really felt for Parth. She had never told him about this coz she feared if Parth wouldn't understand her feelings n if he leave her then...???. 


Parth was her secret love and she was happy with it.

At the airport,


She hugged Parth tightly like never before n with much difficulty, Prachi was hiding her tears.Shewished the  moment would stop there n she won't have to leave Parth. Hugging Parth ,Prachi was remembering the song which said lyk "lg ja gale ki phr ye hasin sham ho n ho, sayad phr is janam m mulaqat ho n ho...".


Now she understood why the songs were lyk this....!!!



The final announcement was made n this tym Parth had to leave from there, to leave Prachi , to leave Delhi n to leave his family too.He was becoming emotional leaving all these.But he had to leave all these to fullfill his dreams, his ambition for which he had waited for the last 2 years.


"Byee Prachi, tc n study hard n i know u''ll miss me...:p..:P...hehhehe."...!!! said Parth

Listeng this Prachi burst into tears n hugging him she replied "i''ll really miss u Parth evry moment spnt wid u were jst special n u r spceial in ur own way.tc..."

Parth said "acha itta spcl hu mai...:P...:P...."


Finally, parth had to leave and he was leaving.He said last good byee to everyone at the airport n then vanished from there



In the home-

Prachi was lying on her bed doing nothing. she was thinking that  if she would have told Parth about her feelings for him, would Part still leave her....???

Would Parth too luv her or treat her as a friend only.??


Prachi was thinking about the days when she believed  that she was not made for luv. she didn't believe in luv.Yeah, before meeting Parth, she was like this. She was the type of girl, for whom, her family her career was the most important n one should not leave her family, her ambitious for the so called luv. For  her, love was such a waste of time.


But as it is said "to understand something you have to experience it"

   Likewise,Prachi had experienced luv , she had experinced that being in luv is a special feeling n luv is the most beautiful feeling in the world. Parth had always made her feel special, everytime whenever she was with Parth she felt so special.She wished the moment would stop there.NO one had made her feel special like Parth.

She was in luv with Parthand was happy to be in love....


She could have stopped Parth at the aiport by any reasons if she wanted but she didn't .
Because all she wanted is his happiness and his happiness was in going abroad ,studying in his dream university and she was happy with that.


Thinking all these , a mesage from Parth came "hii reached london airport but missng u yrr"

His message made her day and she texted"great n don't miss me am alwz there for u....n focus on studies"

Prachi believed that somethings in life should be made secret and they should not be revealed anyway.Its better to keep some feelings only to u!!

Truly, some love stories  are meant to be only one sided n they are incomplete.!!!

But what makes them complete is the feelings and emotions of that person!!


Like  Prachi's love story was one sided but her feelings for Parth,  her sacrifice make her story complete.





Tuesday 31 March 2015

Its All About Security...

This is something which most of the Indian Parents want for their children specially the girl child.Yeah, as the topic clarifies u i am talking about "security".Of course I do agree that security and safety is important and what our parents think is absolutely right. But what is really wrong in it is their over security for their children n specially for their daughter.

We  have heard that "Excess of everything is bad". Exactly this happens with over security.  If we have to live in excess security we would definitely be highly affected with it n just hate even the word "security".



What would happen if this security would make your lyf full of rules n restrictions??

Let us talk about some common thingsthat happen wid most of us usually in the name of security-


1. IF u r a girl and u jst want to take admision in Delhi, or wants to do intership there n suppose ur friens hv planned a trip to Delhi. How much of the Indian parents would agree wid this???
would they simply agree n permit u to roam to Delhi.??

The answer would be "NO"

Ofcoure, its the mindset of mostly parents that Delhi is not safe for girls(specially after the famous nirbhaya case)and girls should not go there for any purpose whether it be for your internship, for your college trip n even for your jobs. you just stay away from Delhi.

Is this fair for girls?? Is this we call Security??

just because most rape cases occur in Delhi it means girls should not go there.

why..???

If we are not secure in the country's capital., then i don't think so that anywhere we will be secure. This is not we call security that is we would not go to Delhi or somewheere else where our parents don't allow us then we 'll be secure. this is called restrictions n not security.

So Dear parents allow your daughters to roam anywhere they want as by doing this your daughters will become strong, confident n face the realities of the world.Don't stop them in the name of over security coz security is what we take in our own hands.

2.what would happen if ur parents wants you to study in girls cllg (or school) because u'll be more secure there??

The answer would be that ur  life become full of rules n restrictions. Yeah no doubt u''ll be secure there a lot no matter how many incidents occur everyday but still a girls college or school is the best place where u could be secure as compared to a co-ed college or school!!!

It doesn't matter your rights are violated(by following the rules that violate ur rights)  or  your lyf become frustrated (as u wont be able to enjoy without boys in ur cllg hehehe!!) n not because of boys only but because of too much restrictions in the name of providing security for you but yeah u''ll be secure here and ur parents would be satisfied with it coz all they need the most is theso called"security" for u.

3.What would u do when your life is full of security??

Obviously if someone is everytime stopped or restrains in the name of security n rules , he or she would definitely think that nothing in their lyf has  remain except security. what would he or she do with this security??

IF someone has doesn't see freedom, if they don't have the freedom of their choices, definitely that person would hate so much of security in lyf n even hate the word " security".

This is what the consequences would be if we live in a world of "excess security"



All in one I can summarise it is -

Dear parents, we respect you and luv u a lot . We know that you care for us n so you believe in our security.We do respect your feelings n even we need security in today's lyf .But what we want to say is that yes securty is good but yeah ,excess security, the over security is not good coz excess of everything is bad and  so with the consequences of security too.

No one is secure anywhere and  not even  secure in our homes.SO how can we expect for security in Delhi or other places if we are not getting security in our homes itself.???


So,Dear papa move on with your meaning of security n give us our freedom n believe in us coz we also want to face the world. For this all we need is the FREEDOM not the EXCESS SECURITY.





Sunday 22 March 2015

Things That Remain Unsaid.......

"Hey Riya,reply me yrr" texted Rohit at 10:30 p.m


Riya and Rohit were best friends since from the school days.Rohit was the type of guy which Riya never liked but still Rohit was her best friend n even she didn't know the reason why she was attracted towards Rohit- why he was her best friend?/?


May be thats why it is said "opposite attracts"!! 


"what do u want to know Rohit"???texted Riya at about 11:15 p.m


Rohit replied"Do u lyk like me  or do u have some feelings for me"??


After waiting for at least 15 minutes Riya texted"yeah, of course i lyk u...as a friend....:)..:)"



On the other side Rohit was eagerly waiting for her answer n he has just seen her message.Rohit thinks that why girls can't be just straight forward why girls cant give a simple answer to such a simple question.They are responsible on their own  for creating dilemma for themselves!!!Today Rohit believed that what he has always heard is true about girls that God has created girls but even He is not able to understand what is going on in a girls mind!!!This is something true about girls.


"yrr, dont u girls give a simple answer to a simple question u stupid girl...." replied Rohit

"shut up ,means u boys are so simple n straight forward rt....n r u..??" replied Riya


"yeah, boys are born to be shut up before girls  !!!okkkhh.....u lyk me as a friend i know yrr...i was just kidding" texted Rohit


"hmm...thats gud :P...:P" Riya texted


"Hey Riya, she don't lyk me  yrr bt i like her a lot . she is so pretty n hot....!!!" another mesasge by Rohit to Riya


"oh come on yrr this is the 7th grl whom u are calling preety n hot n aweesme. Don't u get tired of doing flirting to such an extent i mean be serious now n focus on ur studies first" replied Riya


"hey miss serious i m not flirting dear m serious i lyk her. should i tell her that i lyk her n how pretty she is??" Rohit answered


"okkhhh then tell her n do whatever u want to do. why r u asking  me...??.i don't care about all these." Riya replied


"hey what hapened to u....?? i was jst kiddng yrr m nt at all serious bt yeah i lyk her thats all ,u know me Riya..."Rohit texted


" hmm...i know bt u knw i get jealous whenever u talk about your other girl friends ."i don't know why is it so but yes it happens !!May be i feel insecure that someone will take u away from me n i''ll loss my best friend" texted Riya


"oh miss senti r u mad.... why u get jealous u are n will alwz be my friend n noone can take ur place in my life"Rohit replied

"hmm....ofcourse i know as noone has the capacity like me to tolerate u....heheehe....!!Riya replied


"hehehehe......really.....n noone lyk me too to tolerate such a heartless girl lyl you."...:P..:P replied Rohit


"kk i have to go right now. will catch u later .byeeee n gd nt!!"Riya replied


"gd nt dear swt dreams n tc"texted Rohit



Riya then switched off her lappy , lying on her bed n was thnkng why she get jealous about other girls in Rohit's lyf. Why she get effected by those girls, why??was this  due to the insecurity that she'll loss her best ffriend or there was somethnig else. ??why Rohit was her best friend -coz he was the type of guy she never liked.was there somethning that remain unsaid...??? with all these questions in her mind she took a deep breath n then she realised that it was due to her insecurity of loosing her best friend and nothnig else as Rohit was the only friend to whom she can share anything n Rohit understands her very much.



But still there was something which Riya was not understanding she was not satisfied with....!! what was that she even didn't know n may be she was just ignoring these.but yeah there were certain things that remain unsaid.......!....!!


Saturday 21 March 2015

Friendship

One day all of us will get separated and will remember our conversations on evrythning

n nothing.Days will pass into months,months into year n we'll remain in contact with

each other.Our children will ask"Who are these people in the photograph??"

we'll answer them with an invisible tears in our eye n say:"these are those people with whom i had the best memories of my lyf....."


Yeah, of course, I am talking about the friends n friendship-- the relation which we choose on our own.This blog is for all those people who believe that friends r the  best part of their lyf n have their best friends forever......!!!


Before talking about friendship, i would lyk to thank my bestiess in lyf without whom i would not be able to live in d heaven (or d hell )called hostel-not only in hostel bt lyf would be so boring without my bff-.thankss to them for always supporting me encouragng me n ofcourse for tolerating me.....(i m really irritating sometymes...).This blog is dedicated to all the persons who have their best friends forevr n hav the  best memories of their life.


Friendship -means different to differnt persons.but one thing that remains common in any friendship is d luv ,trust n ofcourse unlimited fun...mkng best memories that u cn hold it in ur heart forever.

Only in friendship u can share  almost everything - whether it be ur lnch box, pen, books n even the  answer sheets in exam or even u can share your bf n gf too...hhahahaa!!!.There are no secrets n no lies between friends.Or u can say all is fair in friendship.

In  summarised way only i can say is---

Yaaron dosti bdi hi hasin h 

ye n ho to kya phr bolo ye zindagi h!!!


so make friends go crazzy wid them live ur every moment wid ur bff qki 

"zindagi milegi n dobara dosto"

Monday 23 February 2015

"Perfect Daughter"

Standing on the terrace, looking at the stars with the cold wiinds blowing ,she was thinking of the days when she used to  spent most of her tym wid her family specially with her Father. In her childhood her father told her a number of stories n one of them was the story of a "PERFECT DAUGHTER".Till that time she promised herself  that nomatter whatever the situation is n would be, no matter anyone would support her father or not, but she'll alwayzs prove her to be a Perfect Daughter.


Thinking about these childish memories , she was crying badly. she has now understood that everyone have had a childhood in which we are free to do anything,n no one cares for that. But as you grow up, everything changes whether it be  your habits,your carefree attitude, and of course your relation and attachment with ur family. 


All these things are happening to her, dont know why???  As sge grow up, she only talks to her father as a formality. everyone in her family are so busy that no one wanna understand that what she wants in her life ,what are her desires ,what she wants to be.Everyone are just putting  their decisions on her. She has now realised that being a "perfect daughter" is not easy.


To  be a Perfect Daughter, u have to follow your family's rule whether you like it or not, to respect your father's decisions without asking any question , to choose the path which your father asks you to choose, no matter u want to move on that path or not. To choose that profession which your family wants n specially your father.omatter u wanna become a singer, a model or an actor, if your father wants u to do Law , medical or engineering in your lyf then you have to do it. yeah  no matter what is your passion in lyf or what u want to do.


Because  the definition of perfect daughter is set up by the society, by the family n of course by almost everyone because  to be a perfect daughter, u have to be perfect according to your family ,your parents n of course the so called society.!!!

She was doing all these , has followed all the rules , never disobeys her father's decision, and has done everything in which she was least interested  but her father was the most interested one. That's why she has opted to do medical - the profession which she hated the most . But still for her father , to fulfill her promise of being a" perfect daughter" throughout her life. she has decided to do medical just to fulfill her father's dream because  girls love their father the most in their life because 

 "A father is a daughter's first luv "!!!

She has promised herself that no matter how old she grow, how much she would  luv her husband but her dad will always be her king. And for a king, her princess can do anything, can let go her desires, her wishes n almost everything that her dad doesn't likes because all she wants in her life is to be a "Perfect Daughter"

But  don't the society ,the family thinks that Is this a criteria that to be a perfect daughter u have to follow all the rules, follow all the decisions, to let go one's passion in lyf. Just because if a daughter disobeys these things ,she can't be regarded a "perfect daughter".??

She wants to ask just one question to every parents n specially to every father that:


Everyone says that no one is perfect, everyone has some imperfections, but everyone is special in their own way. Everyone has their own choices, own desires n own decisions in lyf.


Then  Why a Girl , a Daughter has to be Perfect , why she has to proof herself to be a perfct daughter???why  parents wants their daughter to follow all the rules set up by themselves. Why she can't follow her path, n if she follows her path , why she has to  face sarcastic comments -everywhere from her family to the  so called society???

The questions are many  but what would be the answer to it, everyone have a different opinions.!!



Wednesday 18 February 2015

Staying Strong


In everyone's lyf there comes a situation when you feel down,feel lyk evrythng is going wrong,liyk lyf knocks u down..n has cheated wid u.In that situation we dnt knw what is right n wrong. At that time ur frnds, family n almost everyone says that everythng will be alright soon.IN fact they knw that lyf will nvr be same lyk before.they only consoles u jst to gve u strength n support to face the harsh reality of life.


If something has gone wrong n lyf has ditched u bitterly, show ur emotions jst cry as loudly as u can show your anger n do everything that can heal ur pain.but in noway, neevr give up, never ever feel like life will never be kind to you..because you never know what happen next.

Whenever lyf knocks u down,show lyf that u r strong enough to deal with its harsh realities. Yeah,of course it might be hard for you but once u take a step towards it, ur paths will follow you.Just stay strong whenever u feel low,feel lyk everything is falling apart, because i think without passing any hurdles ,solving any problem u cant get happiness or successs.


Just like without solving the question paper in exams u can't get the best results n can't get your teachers appreciation....hehehe...!!!

 Problems n hurdles in our lyf are just to test our strength ,to test our soul that how long it can bear pain.Without facing any problem, life would be like a straight line without any curve n without any enjoyment.


Infact every problem  in life either gives us  the best experience or the worst experience.
In both conditions we can  learn alot from that moment.
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 If someone has failed in life,just stay strong n try to face it. Believe in yourself alwz ,nomatter what the situation is.For if u don't believe in yourself.who else other do!!!





Friday 13 February 2015

Happiness-Alwayz a choice....

Growing up may be the hardest part of life. It’s the time when we seek our path of what we truly want in life. We keep looking for something or someone that we think will make us happy.
But..
Have you ever asked yourself, “What makes me happy?”, “Will I ever be happy when I get this, or when I get that?”, and the most interesting part of life is not a question. It is the desire of most people. Maybe you keep looking for it. Never stop trying to find it. Because you think it is the way to be happy.
Do you know someone that keeps saying… “I will be happy when I get the love of my life!”
There’s nothing wrong with that. In fact, we all want to love and to be loved. Love can make us a better person, to make the world a better place. Love can do everything. Love is a powerful gift from God because He, Himself is Love.
Love is the way to happiness. But don’t forget that happiness is an inside job. If you think you’re unhappy because you still don’t have the love of your life, that’s not true. I, myself also believed that it will only make me happy because that’s what we see and learned from our society.
Love is about sharing. Love can be given from our family and friends, from the strangers we will meet. We keep learning from them. Loving them back can lead us to happiness.
Happiness is always a choice. You will find happiness if you allow yourself to be happy from within and through sharing them out.

Tuesday 3 February 2015

THE FEAR OF LOOSING.....


Lyf plays its own tricks n twists. It goes on, no matter what we have gain or loss... but one thing always remains with us-the fear of loosing something.....!!

Something that you luv more than your life , something that you never wanna loose
If I would be asked what i fear the most to loose-its obviously i never wanna loss my parents-my family. The fear of there death fears me the most...:(...:(

If someone is asked what is there biggest fear-the answer would  be quite different to different persons.


But what should we do to overcome our fear??

 Remember the simple rule -------accept the bitter truth of lyf that one who is born, has to die.. one who is born has to sacrifice...!!

One who is born has to loose something or everything someday, sometimes  .Life n Death both are d truths but noone wanna accept the bitter truth---------death.

Noone wanna accept that every coin has two sides.?So if life is a sweeter truth......Death is also the second face of it.....n its bitter to accept.

Lyf moves on its own will,  play games wid us.

Be ready to accept the bitterness of lyf....n struggle until u overcome your fear...!!!

THE HOPE....

Again she was sitting in her room,trying to cry loudly lyk nvr bfr.bt she cn't.
Seeing outside the window thinking that why she cn't get what she wants .All she wnts is jst her freedom...freedom for her choices in life , freedom to choose her cllg ,freedom in every possible way she wants...,!!!

Why everytime she has to give explanation to others......??

Turning around the watch showing 10:40 pm...she felt to wrote it all in her diary.....n started writing.she wrote.......

"Today once again I  realised that girls are born to be dependent on others.... they dont deserve any freedom
..Why they are even not given chances of choosing things what she wants.??Why GOD has made girls??  And if HE has made girls, why people on earth make differences with them.??
Isn't she also deserves freedom like her brother n like the other male members of her family..??

Why she has to marry according to her family wishes..n  everytime why girls have to give explanations on every thing she wants to do..??
Is being a girl a curse...??

Ifn't why the family, society can't give freedom to girls..??
Why cant they respect their dreams ??

Writing all these in her diary, tears came into her eyes...:(
consoling her again that no matter if she cant get freedom ,if her dreams can't be fulfilled....she has to live anyway , has to fulfill her papa's dream ,live lyf in the way her family wants n moreover.... lyf is not perfect....n she has to satisfy her heart....n has to live live n live......!!

 She stopped crying, put her diary on the table..n went to sleep....with invisible tears in her heart
just in the hope of a new begging...and. a new sunshine..:)"



Isn't she deserves her own world where she can fulfill her dreams ,her passion n gets her freedom....??Is this the big thing that she wants..isn't it??

Isn't she can be regarded as a puppet with whom anyone can play..???