Happy New Year...!!!

She just wanted to give her children  the best new year than the previous year. She planned of buying some sweets and  a new dress for her daughter. Where the world was planning for the new year eve in  the way of throwing huge parties, enjoying to the fulliest and by eating the food that she would not have even heard of. She was happy in her own way of happiness. Because happiness is always a happiness, no matter how big or small it is. And when it comes to giving happiness to others,it is of no cost. All you want a big smile on the face of that person. In order to turn her plan into reality, she worked in the house of her neighbours, cleaning their utensils in the hope of making some earning. After all, money was the only option that could help converting her fantasy into reality. For these poor people-(who spend their nights on the footpaths)wearing a new dress, eating at MC Donalds, restaurants are just the fairy tales , that they only have heard of  but never have seen it.

By her earning , she was able to keep her promise of buying some sweets and a new dress for her children. Where we dreamt of high levels of enjoyment , her family was happy in just some sweets and few clothes. That's the irony of life!! She was happy to saw the sweet smile of her children and this new year, she fulfills her promise made to herself of putting a smile on her children's face.

Dear readers, just want to say that this new year, don't make any resolutions. Just bring happiness in the life of those people who couldn't even dreamt of eating in normal hotels, spend their nights on the dirty foothpaths and to all those who are not even able of earning their two times meals.Put a smile on their face, you would be happy to see them and that would  be the best new year for you.

Happy New Year to all of you!!!

Some lessons we learnt from the Year 2015

New Year is about to come.So its time to just look back for a once and emphasis on the lesson that this year taught us. Here are some of the lessons we  can learn from the year 2015-


1.  Life doesn't give a  second chance to everyone,  but Arvind kejriwal got that.

     The year 2015 was a lucky year for "Arvind kejriwal". BY his hard works, the AAP leader became  the chief minister of Delhi.His story is a great example of how people who deserve a second chance, get one. No matter how  hard the paths be.

    2.  Its your life and your choice.
   This year the famous Deepika Padukone's video "my choice" was a great example  of how     intelligent the  audience on social media is.The video , that spoke about women empowerment  was far  from it and it was criticized  because the audience didn't buy the message blindly.Remember, its your life and your choice to do what you want  and want you don't  . Everyone have their own choices. Just because this video featured a bollywood  superstar, doesn't mean you would follow it blindly.

3. Taxis are just a  click  away from us- the great use of technology

Gone are the days when we have to wait for some auto rickshaw or taxis. This year give us the technology to use the Uber and olla cabs . Thanks to them, we reach home  on time by just one click

4. 2015- The year of banning.

 Yeah,we live in a country where we are not even  free of our eating choices. This year we all heard about the famous  beef ban, maggi ban, meat ban .It questioned our eating choices and took away our favourite items from the market. It hurted alot of people when "hamari maggi" was banned. So this year  we saw all the twists and turns and I guess the year 2015 should be named as the "year of banning"

5. Think before you speak something in India ( specially when you are a superstar)

Recently the news channels covers the headlines - Intolerance debate. The statement which the famous Actor Aamir khan gave to the media became a national topic in just few minutes. SRK , Aamir were criticized for what they had said. Remember, If you utter a single word without thinking, even the stardom is not going to help you anyway.

6. If you have the passion, nothing can stop you from winning.

   Sundar Pichoi steals this year and makes it his own  by becoming the CEO of Google- the first Indian CEO. His life story became an inspiration to hundreds of people. No matter what your background is, from where you belong to , if you have the determination and passion , you can win the race. Remember "mehnat krne walo ki kbhi har nhi hoti"

 7. In India- rape a girl and proof yourself a minor
No one of us has forgotten the Delhi gang rape case. The rapists were prosecuted for what they did and one of them being a minor was released after 3 years spent in rehabilitation centre. The government gave him "sewing machine+Rs 10,000" in hope of his rehabilitation .Such an "incredible India". On one hand, you  talk about women empowerment, their safety,strict laws and the other side you release a rapist  because he is a minor. Shame on the Indian judiciary system. Such a shameful year 2015 . I have just one sentence for the Indian Government " if you can't make it, just leave it, because its not everyone's cup of tea". We girls can make us safe your stupid laws are not needed at all. Try to make the strict rape laws and implement it.

8. The nature is warning us to take actions regarding climate.

   In Chennai, heavy flood, rain destroys thousand of people . many became homeless, some lost their loved ones and a huge panic appeared in the minds of people. Another one was the incident of Nepal Earthquake. This year the nature was in its mood to destroy. It gives us a lesson that its the serious time when everyone of us hold hand together and make steps for the prevention  of  global warming and betterment of nature and economy.

9. Silence for those who thinks  Indian law is equal for all .
  Yes the famous Salman khan verdict proves it that in India "Your Money Your Rule"The Judiciary says that Salman was not found guilty because there were not "enough evidences". Such a shameful decision where one is set free of all charges because of his stardom and the so called not enough evidences found. this decision in 2015 proves you that "money can buy the judiciary"

So these topics are  enough to remind you what we have lost and gained in the year 2015. Lets promise that we would welcome the next year in a new way and would try to make it  better than 2015.

Merry Christmas

MERRY CHRISTMAS  To all the followers of my blog!!! I wish this year Santa will bring a lot of happiness, prosperity and gifts for you .Hope all of you have a great christmas and try to make others christmas great also.This will give you more happiness and Santa would be happy by seeing that humanity still  exists in our planet.

Here again wishing everyone "MERRY CHRISTMAS"

Marks: Does It Really Matters?

We all have crossed  that phase in life where we considered  the most important things in life were to achieve the highest marks.Yes, you are getting me right.This time, I am talking about our school life.That time of life which is considered to be the most memorable moments one can have in life.
At the school times, almost everyone of us used to fight with our friends just for the silly marks.Even the besties fought among themselves for obtaining the highest marks.Everyone did hard work just for being the topper of the class.That was the time when we only run towards marks.

I think marks will give you happiness for sure, but only for a few moment.The moment when you judge yourself how much knowledge you have or if someone from your family. relatives. friends asks you something about any topic,that time your marks are not going to help you at all.Its your knowlegde ,your experience and your communication skills that matters a lot and would help you  in satisfying others for the question they have asked you.

Dear friends, this time I am writing in short for the reason that i know you all are quite intelligent to understand what is more important in life-marks or knowledge??yes. I do agree obtain good marks but firstly obtain the knowledge ,If you have knowledge about your subjects, no one can beat you not even that silly marks.Remember someone has rightly said-
"A single sheet of paper can't decide your future"

Likewise, marks are an illusion ,no one is going to give you the best jobs in Mncs on the basis of your 12th boards marls. or the marks secured in your graduation until and unless you don't have the knowledge, communication and the convencing power.

 Take life easy make it knowledgeable and passionate.Life is not about the silly marks but  is more than that.Bunk few classes, spend your time with friends in college canteens, study hard and get knowledge.This time will never come in life.So enjoy to the fullest and don't don't go behind that "silly marks".Be passionate, Be a learner and not a book worm!!

Hope this blog of mine would help some of your friends who think marks are most important than anything else.Only one sentence for you people:

"Marks can be obtained by any means(the smart ones would understand what i mean to say)but knowledge can't be"!!

Follow Your Dreams

I  had read the book of APJ Kalam 's"Wings Of Fire".I read that book,but never get deeper inside it. Or you can say at that time if I would have understand its meaning...it would be the response of the people that the girl is more intelligent than her age!!Seriously,our childhood is like this only.We are so innocent at that time that we even can't understand ourself.Its that time of our life when we feel everything around us is nice and happy....even the whole world is happy.Well, the intro is more than enough now....lets come to te point directly wo khte hai n......"sidhi bat no bakwas"

I was talking about the "Wings Of Fire"-a book that is all about a person's dreams and the difficult paths that he had to follow in his life. Well known about DR.Kalam-- a man of great determination and a true follower of his dreams.Talking about the word "dream" i remembered a great line said by him which was quoted like-

"Dreams are not which we see in our sleep, Dreams are those which won't make you sleep"!!

Dear readers, we all have our dreams in life .May be its different from each other.Like one may dreamt of a getting a good job, the other one may dreamt of becoming a doctor, a nurse , a teacher and so on.But how many of us become successful in fulfilling our dreams.If i am not wrong the answer would be a 40 out of 100 people.

Why????

To my point of view, its just all of us see dreams but a few of us "Follow our dreams". Following the path  ,no matter how hard it would be... will definitely lead you to your dreams.Many of us feel irritated at some point of life , that time just calm down yourself.Speak to yourself and make urself determined that these small or big hurdles in the life would not throw you out to follow the way you are going to achieve your dream.
Remember,the path to success is not easy.Better to follow the path than to quit in life because winners never quit. Be a winner in your life and follow your dreams.Never think that its too late to follow your dream because its good to be late than never. So,just follow your dreams, go through it. Make your life the best of the best and then you''ll realise that the hurdles in your life was to make you more and more strong and determined......!!!

I guess its enough for today and those who like  this little post of mine......thanku so much and those who don't.... no offence I"ll try that you would love my next post.Till then......good night and take care the lovely people!!!

"From Where To Define you"

, Yesterday was the "Mother's Day".Everyone was wishing her mother "happy mother's day".But one thing i don't understand that is it a fashion today to wish your mother on the social networking sites-on fb, watsup,twitter etc...I have seen yesterday my facebook page was full of mothes day wishes.May be many of us has not wished our mothers by calling her or by meeting her but yes how can we forget to wish her on facebook..coz it's a trend now.Today everything we do, we must upload it on facebook and so how can we miss to wish our mothers on fb and watsup??

Leaving this point and coming to the importance of "mother".

Mother, as heared is the world's best person and without them life isn't life. And we can't give a definition to them,even we can't predict from where we should start to define her because definitions are given to those who have a limited way. Mothers love, her affection, dedication, sacrifice can't be measured,can't be defined and thats why she is a MOTHER. yes, she is the only one who ''ll always be there for you in need and even if u dont need them still she is always with you.Since my childhood i have heard that mothers love is unconditional.Yes, i do agree even everyone agrees to it.
Our mother is the first person who welcome you to this world and gave you her gentle first touch.She is the only one who is always ready to hold you  tight at the slighest indication of a fall.she won't mind to make her own life bitter just to give yo a better life.Only she can forget her cute laughs to make you laugh till ur life.yes only she can give up her desires so that you can fulfill your desires in life.

Truly she is a mother...........!!!

This blog of mine is dedicated to my mother without whom i can't imagine my life and to every mother who has made uncountable sacrifices ,bear unlimited pain and has done almost everything to make our life a better one, to make us happy and to make us laugh.Truly life can't be life without you and a home can't be home without you. You are the "strongest pillar"and the "biggest source of inspiration" for us.I am happy that i am a reflection of your's and you are my mother!!

Happy Mother's Day..!!!

Expectation

This is something which differs from person to person but hv a place in everones life.Yes you are right as the title signifies, i am talking about "EXPECTATION".
  Expectation has a different meaning for everybody.  Although I made introduction more than enough...wo khte hai n "sidhi bat no bkwas"so lets come to the point directly...lets talk about the word which I was thinking to tell you from past several days

There is a word EXPECTATION...every one is well known to this word. It is a very common word for every age group in today's life.

In reality if we see ...every day we all meet this word.Like if in the morning we sit for the breakfast and something comes on the table which you do not like you directly reject it just because the breakfast was not up to your expectations.

But do you think that how much the person would be disappointed who have made ur breakfast in the morning...??NO, we don't thinnk much but we should coz that person has an expectation that you would praise him for making breakfast for you.

Anyways lets have a look of other situations in life

When your parents drop you to school, provides you the best education and gives you all the possible facilities so that you can study well , you can live well and happy.Every parents in this world have their "Expectation" from you, from their child that one day their child would do such better things in life that the society will know ur parents by their name.Like wo sunte hai n hum "wo dkho DR.Anmol ke papa ja rhe h"

So basically here I just want my readers to focus on the point that "where there is an attachment, there is an expectation"


Lets come to the point what are our expectations from ourselves??


It would not be wrong to say that everyone of us have expectations with us.Like some of us wants that we should get good marks in exam, should get a good job and lastly a luxurious life according to our capacity and hard work.

But suppose if you are not up to your expectations then what'll you do?Because everyone is not so lucky that what they expect , they''ll get .

We should not be disappointed with ourselves because if you don't expect from yourself ,you can't expect it from others!!

 In every situation whether it be in good times or bad one,all of us expect or hope that at last everything would be fine and if it's not fine then clearly "its not the end"


Yes,sometimes you'll get disappointments,you''ll get rejections but that doesn't mean that you can't expect things from others.

I have heard that "the best possible way to be happy is to never expect anything from anyone"
 But I think its easy to say this but quiet hard to follow. Where the world exists, Expectations follows.

 All I know is that "Attachment leads to Expectations and sometimes expectations leads to disappointments"